- by Daniel
12 Easy Relaxation Techniques For Back Pain Relief
Relaxing can be tough when you suffer from persistent back pain, but it's vital you learn how to do it if you want to live a pain-free life.
The thought of relaxing when you have back pain sounds pretty ridiculous right?
I mean how are you supposed to relax when your body is on fire?
When no matter whether you sit, stand, or lie down, you can never get comfortable because of the pain.
As it hangs around nagging away at you every second, destroying your sense of inner peace and well-being.
And this doesn't just leave you in pain physically, it also makes you anxious, stressed, and grumpy as hell too.
Which are not the ideal conditions for a relaxing evening at home!
However, this is a problem you need to fix.
Because being unable to relax will most probably make your back pain even worse.
As when we are stressed we tend to hold this tension within our bodies.
And this leads to a vicious circle where your muscles get tighter, which makes you more stressed.
Which in turn makes them even tighter and more painful still!
However, by taking the time to relax each day you can break this cycle of pain.
So, read on and I'll show you 12 easy relaxation techniques that'll allow you to start leading a more comfortable life with less pain.
And trust me, your back will thank you for it.
How Does Relaxing Help Your Back?
Now this idea of relaxing may appear to go against the 'fight back against back pain' motto that this site is based upon.
But not every battle is won through brute force.
As sometimes you need to box clever and one way to do this is by learning how to relax.
But how does relaxing help your back when it's in pain?
To understand this you need to know the damaging effect that stress can have on your body.
Because when you feel stressed out and anxious changes happen within your body that lead to muscle tension and pain.
For example, when your body feels your anxiety it senses that you could be in danger and goes into fight or flight mode.
And as a result your muscles become tense and tight to prepare for this perceived danger.
But holding this extra tension within your body is bad news.
As it can cause you to adopt a hunched posture, which places your lower back under increased pressure and strain.
Also your breathing becomes short and shallow when stressed, which causes tightness in your mid-back and chest areas.
As well as limiting the amount of oxygen in your body.
So your mental and emotional stresses transfer themselves into your muscles and cause you pain.
But the problem with chronic pain is that it can be so all-consuming that it makes it hard to think of anything else.
Which makes it so easy to get stuck in a vicious circle where you constantly worry about the pain you're feeling but this worrying about it only makes the pain worse!
So the key to breaking this cycle of pain is to learn how to relax and you need to do this in two ways:
Because when you relax and release stress and tension from your mind and body your muscles will feel looser and more free.
Which will help them to heal and recover and keep them healthy in the future.
And this will reduce the pain you're in and make it less likely to return, making your back feel a hell of a lot better in the long run.
The Many Other Benefits Of Taking The Time To Relax
Once you've learnt how to relax properly you'll feel great and it will make your back feel a lot happier too.
And the good news is that it isn't just your back that will benefit from relaxing, as there are many other ways it will also help you, such as:
So set aside some time in the day or evening to just relax.
This may feel like time wasted at first if you are constantly in a busy and productive frame of mind.
But the health benefits it can bring you make it time very well spent in my opinion.
Plus it can actually boost your productivity too.
The Best Ways To Relax And Beat Back Pain
So now to the crux of the matter.
Which are the best ways to relax when you are in constant pain?
Well, to truly relax you need to learn how to calm both the body and the mind in spite of the pain.
And there are many ways to do this and the right way will be different for everybody.
So I've compiled a list of 12 relaxation methods you can try to see if they work for you.
These include ways to relax your physical body, ways to relax your mind, and ways to distract yourself away from your pain.
But anything that loosens your muscles, eases tension, takes your mind off the pain, and makes you feel calm and happy is a good relaxation technique to use.
1. Get A Massage
Getting a massage is probably the first thing people think of when it comes to ways to relax and it does the job nicely.
As when you find a skilled masseuse with magical fingers all your troubles seem to just float away.
In fact, you may feel so relaxed that you fall asleep on the table (I know I have in the past!).
And it leaves you feeling like you haven't got a care in the world afterwards.
Back pain just doesn't get a look in.
And massage is great for relaxing your tense muscles too, as a good masseuse will be able to work out and release tight muscle knots which will:
This will work wonders for reducing your pain as your muscles will feel loose and free afterwards.
So if you can stretch your finances to getting a massage once or twice a week it can be a great thing for your back.
Because it is the ideal way of relaxing and releasing tension in both your muscles and your mind.
2. Learn How To Self-Massage
But if regular massages are too much of a luxury (and they are for many of us) don't despair.
Because the good news is you can still get the same benefits as a professional massage in the comfort of your own home and for a fraction of the cost.
And that is by learning how to self-massage.
Now don't worry, as you don't need to be super skilled and flexible to be able to do this.
As there are many self-massage tools on the market that will help you to get into those hard to reach spots.
And they are all very affordable to buy and are great to have at home for anyone suffering from back pain that wants to relax and gain some relief.
So among the many options available to you are:
So give self-massage a try for yourself.
As not only is it great for relaxing tense muscles, it can also be a great help for managing back pain in the long run.
And if you really want to push the boat out and go for the ultimate in relaxation how about trying a massage chair?
These come with price tags that can make grown men weep, but if you have the spare cash they are a fantastic way to relax and switch off after a stressful day.
3. Get Some Exercise
Exercising may not be the first thing you think of when trying to relax, but staying active can be really helpful for keeping your body loose and pain-free.
And for people with persistent back pain it's even more helpful, as it's been shown to:
All of which will keep you healthy and make it much easier to relax in the evenings.
Because not only will exercising help you to use up any excess energy.
It's also great for working out muscle tension and tightness, leaving your body feeling relaxed and sated afterwards.
And another bonus is the release of endorphins that comes from exercising.
As these endorphins are the body's natural painkiller and will help you to self-medicate against the pain you are feeling.
And they are also mood enhancers, which is why you get such a buzz after exercising.
So exercising will make you feel happier and help to calm your mind and push out any negative thoughts about pain.
Putting you in the perfect position to truly relax and let go of the day's stresses.
Now certain exercises are better for relaxation purposes than others and I'd recommend trying some of the following to begin with:
You should find that getting into the habit of exercising regularly reduces stress and makes it much easier for you to relax afterwards.
Just remember not to overdo things and you're golden.
4. Practice Deep Breathing
Your breathing has a tendency to become shallow when you are stressed out, which heightens the sense of anxiety felt within your brain.
And this anxiety is then transmitted to your body, making you feel tense and uncomfortable.
However, when you consciously slow your breathing down it can reverse this effect.
As the increase in the amount of oxygen to the brain calms your nervous system, which in turn helps to relax your body.
And this state of calm that is brought on by deep breathing can also:
So, it's a great idea to make time to practice deep breathing for at least 15 minutes per day.
As this will put you in a relaxed and calm frame of mind, which can really help to ease the tension in your muscles.
And focusing on your breathing will also help to take your mind off your back pain, starving it of the attention it craves.
Now there are a few deep breathing exercises you can try that are great for relaxing such as:
And for more information on deep breathing exercises click here.
But the good thing is once you learn these breathing techniques they can be done anywhere.
So whether you are on the bus or train, at work, or out and about doing your daily chores take a deep breath.
As you have a method that will immediately reduce any stress and anxiety and help to restore your peace of mind.
Which in this hectic modern world we live in isn't such a bad thing at all.
5. Practice Meditation
Meditation has been shown in recent studies to be a good treatment option for people with chronic lower back pain.
And a big reason for this is the way it calms and relaxes your mind and body.
As by focusing your mind during meditation you can achieve a calmer and clearer mental state.
And when this happens you become present and can choose to step away from the endless chatter of the mind, which allows it to take a much needed break.
Also the focus on deep and controlled breathing in meditation practice will help to slow down your heart rate and calm your nervous system.
So meditation is great for relaxing as it reduces stress and anxiety, both mentally and physically.
And it can help to get rid of your back pain too as you:
This helps massively, as focusing on your pain only increases it's intensity.
So by taking this focus away you are also taking away it's hold over you and as such it won't be able to affect you as much.
Now meditation takes a bit of practice at first but you have plenty of resources online to help you get started.
For example there are hundreds of meditation videos on YouTube that will guide you through your practice such as the one above.
And it's worth persevering with, as it's a great way to relax your mind and body and could be a game changer when it comes to your back pain.
As it can:
So don't be put off by thinking that meditation is all about hippies, incense candles, and mantras because it's not.
It's just a great way to focus and calm your mind which can help you to relax and handle your pain in a healthier way.
6. Use Heat To Relax You By Having A Soak In A Nice Warm Bath
Heat therapy is another great way of taking the edge off persistent back pain and relaxing both your body and mind.
This works in two ways:
And it also feels pretty good too!
So applying heat to your back a great thing to do regularly to help you to relax and stay pain-free.
And there are a few different ways you can do this such as using:
However, the most simple and easy way to get heat therapy is to have a nice long soak in a warm bath.
As this allows the heat to really penetrate deep into your tight and tired muscles.
And who can fail to feel relaxed in the bath tub?
So reach for the epsom salts, put your favourite music on, and light some candles.
And don't forget your rubber duck.
Because this could be the most enjoyable and easy way to relax on the list.
7. Listen To Soothing Music
Music is a really powerful thing.
As it can plug directly into your emotions and influence the way you feel, both in your body and mind.
It can lift you, soothe you, energise you, make you smile, make you cry, and transport you to a different place and time within a few bars.
Because studies have found that listening to soothing music can lower their sensation of pain and improve their overall mood and outlook.
And the even better news is that you can also use the power of music to help you to relax and forget about your pain too.
This works both physically and mentally.
Both of these things will reduce the levels of pain you feel, which will have a relaxing effect on both your mind and your body.
So listening to music can be a great way to relax, and it's a method you can use at any time.
So try listening to your favourite music when driving, or if possible put the radio on in the background as you work.
As this will help you to stay calm in otherwise stressful environments and situations.
And if you're wondering which type of music you should listen to when you want to relax, I'd say that should be your own choice.
Now there has actually been scientific research carried out on which are the most relaxing songs of all time and they came up with this top 10.
I'm not sure they would make my top 10 but they obviously do something right so might be worth checking out!
And in most studies it seems that classical and 'chill out' type music have the best results, but I'd say just listen to the music you love and find what works for you.
So make yourself a Spotify playlist of the music that leaves you feeling warm and calm which you can go to when you're feeling stressed out.
And let the music take your pain away.
8. Find A Hobby To Distract Yourself With
Another way to distract your mind away from back pain is to absorb yourself in a hobby or activity that you enjoy.
This distraction is really effective, because our brain and nervous system can only take in a limited amount of information at any one time.
So they have to filter this information by what they see as most important, and unfortunately pain signals are usually at the front of the queue for their attention.
But when you give your mind and body other things to think about instead the pain signals can get blocked out.
So you feel less pain.
And this is where losing yourself in a hobby or activity can really help you to relax.
As this can put you into a flow state that brings the following benefits:
These benefits of repetitive motions and the flow state experienced by participating in hobbies is explained well in the video above.
And if you can get these benefits during the day too then even better.
For instance, I know that I regularly get into a flow state when I'm painting and decorating and it really does make me feel relaxed, calm, and contented throughout the day.
And I don't feel my back pain at all when I'm in the middle of it.
So if you currently don't have any hobbies outside of work seriously consider taking one up.
As there are so many options available to you and this list may give you a few ideas:
The list is endless really.
And an added bonus of some hobbies is that they are social.
Which is great as you'll be getting the human connections and social interactions that we all need to stay mentally and emotionally healthy.
And even better if these interactions involve laughter, as there is no better way of releasing tension than having a good belly laugh!
So don't let your pain prevent you from taking up a hobby as it'll help you to relax and your back could really benefit from it.
9. Get Yourself A Pet
Now this one sounds a bit off the wall but hear me out.
Because having a pet at home, especially a dog or a cat, can really help you to relax and de-stress.
This is helpful in a number of ways.
Firstly dogs and cats love to be petted (in fact some are quite insistent upon it and won't leave you alone unless you rub their tummies!).
And judging by the closed eyes, wagging tail or purring that follows this is deeply satisfying for them.
But this form of affection isn't just good for your pet, it's also great for you too.
Because when you are stroking your pet your body releases feel-good relaxing hormones that make you feel happy and content.
As well as lowering your heart rate and blood pressure.
And having a pet is also good for your mental and emotional health too.
I mean who can stay mad and stressed out when you are enthusiastically greeted at the door every night by so much unconditional love?
They are just always so pleased to see us that it can't help but give you a warm and happy feeling inside.
And having a loyal companion like this can also ward off feelings of loneliness that may be bringing your mood down.
Also having a dog will make you go out for regular walks, which will help you to work off energy as well as get a bit of fresh air.
So having a pet can have such a positive impact on your mood and overall health that it can't fail to help you to relax and take your mind off your aching back.
10. Try Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Progressive muscle relaxation is a good way of releasing tension from within your body and helping your muscles to fully relax.
The idea is that by consciously tensing a group of muscles, holding this tension, and then releasing it suddenly you can help them to go into a relaxed state.
And that by coordinating this with your breathing and mental focus as you work each muscle group you can achieve a deep level of relaxation.
Which not only lowers stress and tension levels but also makes you more aware of how this tension feels within your body.
And this makes it easier to spot and nip in the bud as it builds up throughout the day.
So how exactly do you practice progressive muscle relaxation?
Beginning with your upper body and working your way down one area at a time follow this sequence:
For a more detailed description of the progressive muscle relaxation technique click here.
And to get an idea of what this might look like in practice take a look at the video above.
The good thing about progressive muscle relaxation is that it's not just a good relaxation technique.
As it has also been shown to reduce the perception of pain, stress, and improve the general well-being of people with chronic lower back pain.
So definitely a good technique to have in your armoury in the fight against back pain.
And one that can help your tense and aching muscles to relax and let go.
11. Take A Break From Your Smartphone
We are all constantly attached to our smartphones nowadays.
So much so that they have become an essential part of living effectively and have made most tasks a lot easier.
Which is a great thing in so many ways.
But the problem is they can also kill your chances of relaxing.
Because while phones allow us to do more than we ever thought possible a decade ago, they also keep us connected 24/7.
Which means you never get any respite from your work or social life.
Or the constant stream of news and information coming at you from all angles.
Which leaves your brain in a heightened state of stimulation and arousal which can make you stressed out and anxious.
So take a deep breath and step away from your phone for a couple of hours each day.
I know this is really hard to do as they are addictive little buggers, but it really is essential if you're going to truly relax.
So try doing it in stages.
First turn off notifications and only check social media once per day.
Or if you want to avoid being disturbed by calls and texts switch your phone to silent or leave it in another room.
And if you're feeling REALLY brave how about turning off your WiFi and 4G and turning your smartphone back into......just a phone!
So try limiting your smartphone use and see if you notice the difference.
As you should then be able to switch off in more ways than one.
12. Do What Makes YOU Feel Relaxed
Now I've listed many great ways to relax here, so you should be able to find a few that work for you.
However, I realise that everyone is different.
And no-one will know which activities you find relaxing better than yourself.
As there may be things that relax you that other people would find strange.
But don't worry about that because if something relaxes you then go with it.
As the end result will be the same whatever you try, it's just a case of tailoring ways to relax that do the trick for you.
So, if things that would over stimulate others such as listening to death metal, playing video games, or getting involved in extreme sports help you to relax then keep doing them.
After all, it's the destination that's important not how you get there.
Have you found some things here that could help you to relax?
I hope so, because being stressed can transmit so much tension and tightness into our bodies and leave our backs screaming in pain.
So make time in the day or evening just to relax.
I know this isn't easy when you are in pain but it really is essential.
As by relaxing your mind and body you are reducing pain's hold over you and giving yourself a much better chance of getting rid of it.
So good luck and if you have any more suggestions or activities that help you to relax I'd love to hear them in the comments below.
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